yeah definitely :/ I think this is called rejection sensitive dysphoria and it's common in ppl with ADHD
YES but if u rlly wanna message sum1 go for it !! no one would mind talkin to u <3
i mean yea i also get that feeling quite a bit but if you really wanna message someone just do it they aint gonna eat ya, and perhaps you'll become bestfriends whit em idk.