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i've been seeing so many people on tiktok and other social medias (mostly tiktok) invalidating and belittling tsukishima's trauma and it really just upsets me.
trauma isn't always a really big event, it's how THAT person responds to an event that THEY find highly stressful.
i think that having someone you really love and look up to end up being miserable and pathetic can fuck you up in a lot of different ways, especially seeing them breaking down in front of you. (and i'm also saying this by personal experience)

if you think that belittling trauma is ok, get the fuck off my page.
but whats NOT ok is to blame your trauma for your shitty actions or even worse, justifying them.

please remember that your trauma is valid and that you are amazingly strong to be able to reach this far :)

have a great day everyone <3
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auruelai
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@slutguts_ im so sorry to hear that :( i hope ur doing better now!!
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slutguts_
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Honestly yea, invalidating trauma whether it be someone who is fictional or real trauma is different for everyone. I've been through a lot of fucked up shit and been invalidated for it, it's not fun

auruelai
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it had to be said!! and ilyt <3

:(
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CVBGHJK- TY FOR MAKING THIS AWARE AND TYSM ILY <33

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