dni if:
⋆ur racist, homophobic, transphobic, albeist or just a bigot (that includes not supporting neopronouns)
⋆u romantisize things like : abuse, self harm, mental illness, parental issues, rape etc (the amount of people i saw who had "i want to meet ppl with daddy issues" in their lil thing is revolting)
⋆ur younger than 13 please please please dont add me, talking to kids makes me uncomfortable. i know ur thinking "im 12 im not a child anymore!!!" u are and i mean that in the nicest way possible. pls stay safe!! theres lots of weirdos on the internet and being cautious is gonna spare u lots of unnecessary trauma (its not a cool thing to have, seriously)
⋆ur a fujoshi or if u fetishe mlm in anyway (cis/cishet women who read bl only for the sex scenes included)
⋆u sexualise minors
⋆u support ybc
i will add more i just cant really think of anything atm