Lotr and flirting

Ok so two totally different topics here but im excited about the lotr show and just love the universe, ugh beautiful. I wanna learn sindarin but im lazy and meh. Also omg i have no clue what im doing i cant tell if im being flirted with cause they said something i flirted they jokingly insulted me, and i was like oh ok ill respect there boundaries,, but then with rodays convo i think they wamt me to make a firstove but the thing with two gays is the friendship is always flirty,, so am i being flirted with or "flirted" with or is it none i dont understand human beings omg i suck-