its been years
❁ what is your sexual orientation?
⇒ lesbian
❁ what is your romantic orientation?
⇒ i dont id with the split model personally so like. lesbian
❁ what is your gender?
⇒ female
❁ what is your sex?
⇒ female (this time pronounced like tamale)
❁ what pronouns do you use?
⇒ trying to adjust to she, my gf's family uses he for me bc i havent corrected them after desisting lol. but i dont mind that much and pretty much accept any pronoun
❁ how long have you been in the lgbtqa+ community for?
⇒ ehhhhhhhh about 7 or 8 years
❁ have you ever dated anyone in the lgbtqa+ community? if yes, explain what they identify as
⇒ im in lesbians with my lesbian gf who is in lesbians with me.
❁ how did you find out about the lgbtqa+ community?
⇒ like. either tumblr or my homophobic mother i dont remember lol
❁ do you have any friends in the lgbtqa+ community?
⇒ i dont have a single non lgbt friend not gonna lie
❁ have you ever been at a pride event?
⇒ yep, went to pride w my gf at our local city.. it was fun
❁ on a scale 0-10, how confident are you with your sexuality?
⇒ 10. cant stand men
❁ on a scale 0-10 how confident are you with your gender?
⇒ theoretically not at all because being a woman sucks but in practice 10 because i definitely am one
❁ are you out to anyone yet?
⇒ online i display it everywhere and i havent specified labels irl but i dont hide it at all
❁ do your parents know about your gender/sexuality?
⇒ i never told them but theyve theorized and they are correct fcdgvsjhbdghvjh
❁ do you ever get misgendered?
⇒ yeah actually. i got hormone imbalances and shit. im nearly six feet tall. i got facial hair. my voice is deep. trust me people do Not like it when women look like that.... sometimes i get stared at when i try to pee in a public bathroom. its wild
❁ have you gotten any hate for your gender/sexuality?
⇒ misogyny luv. also yeah definitely i was the only person in my immediate family who WASNT homophobic cgdhsjgvhbdms
❁ in all honesty, do you think that theres a sexuality that might not be valid?
⇒ hm. one thing i will say: bi/pan lesbians. thats having a preference (or just dealing with comphet). i want to believe these people mean no harm but... well.
❁ do you own any pride merch?
⇒ yea i have a bunch of lesbian pins and a flag. also a lot of rainbow stuff
❁ do you think that theres a possibility that you might change your mind about your orientations/gender in the future?
⇒ you know what no. i've gone thru so many labels but after getting over my trauma and stuff which made me id as those things i think im actually settled. im really confident in my identity if nothing else
❁ what are your thoughts on people that identify as cis?
⇒ i'm people
❁ what are your thoughts on people that identify as straight?
⇒ like. i'm not gonna hate on people i just want that one specific evil type of straight to actually respect us <3
❁ if someone saw you on the street, would they realize that you are in the lgbtqa+ community? if yes, why?
⇒ i act really pda with my gf its very obvious i think like.. every passerby just Knows
❁ on a scale 0-10 how familiar are your friends and family with the lgbtqa+ community?
⇒ like 10 probably
❁ This tag is almost over, did you enjoy it?
⇒ mmmmmm
❁ do you love yourself for who you are?
⇒ sometimes yes sometimes no. but i still wouldnt want to be anyone else.
yay i just wanted to talk about being a lesbian while reliving nostalgia bc being one of us is winning at life